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Best Old Fashioned Southern Tomato Gravy Recipe

Published: Jan 16, 2024 · Modified: Oct 26, 2024 by Wendi Spraker · This post may contain affiliate links · 78 Comments

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Southern Tomato Gravy

The Best Old Fashioned Southern Tomato Gravy Recipe is a ridiculously good sauce for all kinds of wonderful southern recipe s. It’s so creamy, tasty, smooth and it smells heavenly! It’s basically impossible not to like it.

plate of southern tomato gravy.

Southern Tomato Gravy

Contents show
1 Southern Tomato Gravy
2 Why This Recipe Works
3 Here's What You'll Need
4 Here's How It's Done
5 Where Did Tomato Gravy Come From
6 How Do You Use Tomato Gravy
7 Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ's)
7.1 Is Tomato Gravy and Red Gravy the Same Thing
8 How Can I Change Up Tomato Gravy
8.1 Can I Freeze Tomato Gravy?
8.2 How Long is Tomato Gravy Good For
8.3 How Can I Reheat My Tomato Gravy
8.4 How Can I Thicken Tomato Gravy
8.5 How Do I Make Restaurant Quality Tomato Gravy
9 Tips and Tricks
10 Watch Sarah Make This on YouTube
11 Can Ya'll Help Me Out?
12 Southern Tomato Gravy
12.1 Ingredients
12.2 Instructions
12.3 Notes
12.4 Nutrition
13 A VERSE TO SHARE
13.1 You May Also Love:

No, I did not grow up eating homemade tomato gravy. I sure wish that I had though. It is an extremely addicting forever favorite of most southern homes. I dare you to tell me otherwise after the first time you’ve tried it.

This  awesome southern comfort food is a breakfast staple but can be used on

  • homemade biscuits,
  • steaks,
  • pork chops,
  • Country Ham
  • eggs,
  • asparagus 
  • a piece of rubber.

Seriously, Tomato Gravy is that good! and is southern food of the best kind! 

I showed you how to make my famous Sausage Gravy some time ago and it’s time for another gravy recipe. Now we also have Sawmill Gravy! Yum! 

Why This Recipe Works

  • You can use canned tomatoes and therefore, it’s good all year long.
  • If you have fresh tomatoes, that works too. 
  • Its simple and comes together in minutes. 

Here's What You'll Need

  • Oil - Butter and Bacon Fat (from pan drippings)
  • Tomato - Canned Diced Tomatoes
  • Spices - salt, pepper, garlic, brown sugar, 
  • Dairy - Parmesan Cheese and Heavy Cream

Here's How It's Done

frying pan of tomato gravy.
STEP 1. saute the garlic, add the tomatoes.
spatula and pan of tomato gravy.
STEP 2. Smash the tomatoes and mix while simmering.
Add ingredients to tomato gravy.
STEP 3. Mix in other ingredients.
STEP 4. Stir and simmer.
STEP 4. Stir and simmer.

Where Did Tomato Gravy Come From

Since I first posted this recipe back in 2015, many readers have written in to tell me that their relatives made this recipe because of an overabundance of summer tomatoes that needed to be used.

Makes sense to me!

I’ve also read that tomato gravy dates back to the early 1800’s and was made with tomato sauce or tomato juice, chicken broth, a little all purpose flour, black pepper and heated over medium heat and then served over hot biscuits. 

How Do You Use Tomato Gravy

Tomato gravy is good on EVERYTHING!

I have tried Tomato Gravy as a sauce for a steak, to go with green beans, over creamy grits, accompanying asparagus, on top of eggs and simply slathered on a good old fashioned Buttermilk Biscuit!

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ's)

Is Tomato Gravy and Red Gravy the Same Thing 

Nope, tomato gravy is made from tomatoes and red gravy is also called red eye gravy and is made from coffee. They are completely different.

How Can I Change Up Tomato Gravy

Tomato gravy works perfectly with…

  1. Bacon crumbled up in it.
  2. Served over rice.
  3. A little extra milk added for more creaminess
  4. Make it using Rotel tomatoes for extra spice
  5. Leave off the onions if you want
  6. Serve over pasta!
  7. Yummy over shrimp and grits! 
  8. Eat with chicken or sausage!
  9. How about a meatball? 
  10. Serve with fried chicken
  11. Serve over homemade buttermilk biscuits

Can I Freeze Tomato Gravy? 

Leftover Tomato gravy can be frozen, but the when you thaw it the consistency is quite different and is unappetizing so I don’t recommend it.

Much better to take a few minutes and make some fresh. 

How Long is Tomato Gravy Good For 

Tomato gravy can stay out on the counter for about 2 hours.

The cooled gravy needs to be wrappped up tightly or place in an airtight container and place it in the refrigerator. It will be good for reheating for about 5 days.

How Can I Reheat My Tomato Gravy

Just pour it into a saucepan or a frying pan, add a little milk, cream, stock or water and gently stir and heat until it is heated through. 

How Can I Thicken Tomato Gravy

You thicken your tomato gravy just like you would thicken any gravy. 

In a separate cup whisk together 1 Tbs corn starch with 1 Tbs cold water. It will begin to look like milk. 

Add this to your hot gravy and stir and then wait for 2 minutes because it takes a minute for the thickener to develop. Repeat until your gravy is as thick as you like.

You can also add a few tablespoons of flour to the mix and let it cook down and thicken.

How Do I Make Restaurant Quality Tomato Gravy

The secret to tomato gravy that is just like a fancy restaurant is during step three,  stop before adding the cheese and final butter and press through a small kitchen sieve (or even through a slotted spoon) to remove the bits of tomato, shallot and garlic that remain and THEN add the butter and parmesan.

However,  I LIKE little chunks of tomato, shallot and garlic.

I mean I REALLY LIKE those. Besides, it seems a waste to throw those out when they taste so good. So, I left them in. In your kitchen, you be the boss. Try it both ways and see what you think.

Tips and Tricks

  • This recipe for Southern Tomato gravy is pretty loose, for example, you can sub out ½ an saute onion for the shallot. You could use another type of diced tomato from plain to another flavored one.
  • Be careful taste testing because it is EASY to burn your tongue. Ask me how I know. 🙂
  • When you add salt and taste, make sure to stir the gravy and cook for a little bit to allow the salt time to melt.
  • You'll want to make this recipe is a large skillet just not a cast iron skillet because the acidity of the tomatoes can take the seasoning off the skillet. 
  • You can substitute olive oil for vegetable oil or butter. 
  • Thin with a little water or chicken stock if needed. 
  • If you need more sauce but don't need to double the recipe, simply add a little tomato paste and heat over medium-high heat.
  • Thicken with cornstarch or a flour mixture. 
  • The fire roasted diced tomatoes ads a smoky flavor
  • Enjoy some garlic powder to give some extra flavor

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I LOVE to hear from you and will respond to any comment left as soon as humanly possible!

I can't wait!

Ya'll know I love your comments!! ❤

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Southern Tomato Gravy

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Course: Side
Cuisine: American
Keyword: Tomato gravy, southern tomato gravy
Prep Time: 30 minutes minutes
Cook Time: 20 minutes minutes
Total Time: 50 minutes minutes
Servings: 6
Calories: 220kcal
Author: Wendi Spraker

Ingredients

  • 2 Tbs sweet cream unsalted butter divided
  • 1 tbs bacon grease
  • 1 shallot minced
  • 1 clove garlic minced
  • 1 teaspoon Kosher salt divided
  • 1 Tbs all purpose flour
  • 1 14.5 oz can Fire Roasted Diced Tomatoes with garlic
  • ¼ Cup Heavy Cream
  • ½ teaspoon brown sugar
  • salt and pepper to taste
  • ¼ cup grated fresh parmigiano reggiano cheese
  • Fresh cracked black pepper

Instructions

  • In a stainless steel frying pan melt 1 Tbs butter on the stove top over medium heat and add the 1 Tbs bacon grease. When melted add the shallot and garlic and cook until fragrant and starting to brown (about 3 minutes or so).
  • Add ½ teaspoon salt to the frying pan. Add 1 Tbs flour to the pan and cook over medium heat for 1-2 minutes (this allows the raw flour taste to cook out of the flour).
  • Add the can of tomatoes all at once with the water from the can. Use a potato masher and smash and crush the tomatoes some until the sauce is the desired "lumpiness" that you will like. Stir and heat until thickened and bubbly. Add the cream. Add brown sugar and return to bubble. Taste and add salt and pepper to taste. Turn off the burner and add the other tbs of butter as well as the grated cheese. Stir to melt. As soon as melted, serve. Garnish with fresh cracked black pepper.

Notes

  • If using fresh tomato, smash the tomatoes and then strain off the seeds. 
  • Use the best canned tomatoes you can for this recipe, it really makes a difference. 
  • It is fine to substitute a ½ onion for the shallot. 
  • Use milk if you need to instead of cream. 
  • It is ok to use chicken stock instead of milk or cream if you do not want creamy tomato gravy
  • Always use real butter
  • For restaurant quality tomato gravy, strain the gravy through a fine sieve kitchen strainer before adding the final butter and cream.  This will remove any tiny bits of tomato and shallot, etc.  and leave a thin fine liquid for your gravy. 
  • If you want to thicken your gravy more,in a separate cup whisk together 1 Tbs corn starch with 1 Tbs cold water.  It will begin to look like milk.  Add this to your hot gravy and stir.  Repeat until your gravy is as thick as you like.

Nutrition

Nutrition Facts
Southern Tomato Gravy
Amount Per Serving
Calories 220
* Percent Daily Values are based on a 2000 calorie diet.
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***This post has been revamped to add more information from it's original post on 12/29/15***   

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Comments

  1. Gretchen says

    June 02, 2018 at 1:23 pm

    I’m from Kansas, my mom would fry up meatballs and make tomato gravy served over mashed potatoes. She always used canned tomatoes. Haven’t had any in years.

    Reply
    • Wendi Spraker says

      June 02, 2018 at 1:45 pm

      It's a wonderful memory, isn't it?

      Reply
  2. Sean Mahan says

    June 01, 2018 at 4:11 pm

    5 stars
    Don't remember having tried this, like, ever. Maybe I'll get the family together to see what everyone think during the weekend.

    Reply
    • Wendi Spraker says

      June 01, 2018 at 4:16 pm

      Sounds perfect! Enjoy your time together!

      Reply
  3. M Miller says

    June 01, 2018 at 10:33 am

    5 stars
    Thank you for sharing... been a Southern all my life. Know well the Southern cream gravy, but this is a new one for me. I plan to make it for breakfast tomorrow with buttermilk biscuits and bacon. Love, Love your loaves and dishes.
    M Miller (aka Hummingbird)

    Reply
  4. Terry says

    June 01, 2018 at 9:55 am

    5 stars
    Tomato gravy is hubby's favorite over rice with smoked sausage! Sometimes I brown the sausage and then make the tomato gravy right in the same pan...Yummy!

    Reply
    • Wendi Spraker says

      June 01, 2018 at 10:00 am

      Oh with those drippings I bet it's delicious!

      Reply
  5. Jodie says

    June 01, 2018 at 8:44 am

    5 stars
    What's not to love about this recipe, Wendi?? I had to laugh at the be careful of burning your tongue tip---I do that all the time, and then it's hard to finish tasting the food to make it good!!
    My husband loves brats this time of year, and I bet this would be good over those too!!
    XOXO
    Jodie
    http://www.jtouchofstyle.com

    Reply
    • Wendi Spraker says

      June 01, 2018 at 8:51 am

      Oh man! I bet it WOULD be good on brats!

      Reply
      • Anita says

        July 10, 2018 at 3:58 pm

        Sounds good on ANYTHING. Can’t wait to try it

        Reply
  6. Eileen says

    May 31, 2018 at 5:09 pm

    Milk? In tomato gravy?

    Reply
    • Wendi Spraker says

      May 31, 2018 at 5:21 pm

      I think it's delicious and creamy - of course your free to make as you please.

      Reply
  7. Sammie says

    May 30, 2018 at 12:04 pm

    5 stars
    This gravy looks and sounds awesome. I’ll be honest, the Southern milky gravy is not something I’m sure I could ever bring myself to make - no offence. I would try it if offered though. However this gravy, this is a horse of a different colour. I too like lumpy gravy and the comment where bacon is added - wow! I shall try this first though, before making any adjustments.
    I’ve loved reading through the comments. It’s so lovely when a recipe brings back happy memories.

    Reply
    • Wendi Spraker says

      May 30, 2018 at 12:51 pm

      The memories are my favorite part too! 🙂

      Reply
  8. Dorothy Carragino says

    March 30, 2018 at 3:17 pm

    4 stars
    Mom grew up on a farm and tomatoes was a staple on the table. Her version was skin the tomatoes chopped and cooked in butter flour to thicken and milk. Making a big bowl of gravy that we ate on bread for our lunches. That was our favorite school lunch. yummy.

    Reply
    • Wendi Spraker says

      March 30, 2018 at 3:45 pm

      Hi Dorothy! Thanks for leaving me a note and your recipe! Sounds wonderful! What a terrific memory! That's what comfort food is all about!

      Reply
  9. Sandra Kelly says

    March 12, 2018 at 12:17 pm

    sweet cream unsalted butter. I live in Canada in Quebec and have looked everywhere for this kind of butter but to no avail. Is there something I can substitute? Would appreciate it. Thanks Sandra

    Reply
    • Wendi Spraker says

      March 12, 2018 at 12:28 pm

      Yes. Just use regular butter. If you have unsalted butter - great! If not, just taste the tomato gravy before adding any salt. Same goes for any of my recipes. 🙂 Thanks for asking and Thank you for visiting!!

      Reply
  10. Moxie says

    February 02, 2018 at 2:17 pm

    5 stars
    Ate all the time growing up - same recipe - yum!

    Reply
  11. Susanne says

    January 11, 2018 at 7:53 pm

    5 stars
    It tastes great but I was wondering if I did something wrong because it didn't take NEARLY 2.5 hours to make this. It was more like 20 minutes. Did I miss something?

    Reply
    • Wendi Spraker says

      January 11, 2018 at 7:54 pm

      Two and a half hours??? Something isn't right - I'll get back with you. I recently changed to a new recipe card here on the site and that might have not converted correctly.

      Reply
      • Mark says

        July 06, 2018 at 2:43 pm

        Yes I noticed that too, 30 min prep & 2hrs cooking, total time 2.5 hrs!

        Reply
        • Wendi Spraker says

          July 06, 2018 at 3:14 pm

          Obviously, there is a mistake. Thanks. Fixing it now.

          Reply
  12. Dwanna Davis says

    August 11, 2017 at 4:12 pm

    When I make mine, I don't use the cheese and I cook a pound of bacon till its done. Then I crumble it up and put it in my gravy... you should try it because like you, I love the clumpy tomato pieces... Just thought I would share this with you... it really adds a whole new WOW to it 🙂

    Reply
    • Wendi Spraker says

      August 14, 2017 at 12:58 pm

      Dwanna! That sounds TERRIFIC!! I'm definitely going to have to try it your way! What could be better than bacon in your tomato gravy?? UMMMMMM...... NOTHING! 🙂

      Reply
    • Michele Moore says

      November 19, 2020 at 7:36 am

      @Wendi Spraker, my spoon!

      Reply
  13. Deidre J Sowerby says

    January 12, 2017 at 9:28 pm

    Wow! I can't tell you how many people never heard of tomato gravy lol! This recipe is a little fancier than what I had, my family never made it but my friend's grandfather made it all the time. He just used tomatoes (home canned) and flour and bacon or sausage grease. I would try your recipe...But it was my understanding that this was made by people who were pretty poor, possibly made up in the war where everyone was pretty poor and food was rationed. I just think this. I think I will try to find the history of it.
    Anyway...Everyone should try it at least once. It's unreal yummy!!

    Reply
    • Wendi Spraker says

      January 12, 2017 at 9:33 pm

      Hi Deidre! It's WONDERFUL!! Thank you for sharing about your friends grandfather. It's crazy how good this stuff is, honestly. Now that I'm thinking about it - I believe I'll make some for dinner tomorrow. 🙂

      Reply
  14. Debbie says

    January 09, 2016 at 9:37 pm

    5 stars
    Growing up my mom always made tomato gravy. We always had it with meatloaf, mashed potatoes,green beans and biscuits. It was delicious. I haven' had it in a long time because I am not a very good gravy maker. I have a meatloaf, green beans and biscuits in the freezer. I am going to thaw them, pick up some potatoes and make the tomato gravy for Sunday lunch. Mum can't wait. Thanks for sharing this recipe and bring back my childhood memories. Can' wait for Sunday lunch. I'm rating this 5 stars because I know it is delicious.

    Reply
    • Wendi Spraker says

      January 10, 2016 at 6:14 pm

      Awwww. Debbie - that is soo nice and I am so happy that this inspired you to cook Sunday dinner, I know it was delicious. That is EXACTLY why I started writing this blog. Thank you for letting me know. I hope that you shared lots of terrific memories with your mom while cooking. That's what it is all about. Thanks for sharing!

      Reply
  15. Darla says

    December 31, 2015 at 5:37 pm

    What size can of tomatoes do I use?

    Reply
    • Wendi Spraker says

      December 31, 2015 at 5:40 pm

      Hi Darla. Thanks for asking! As soon as I am back home I will specify in the recipe. They are the standard size veggie can 14.5 oz. not the huge cans - which I think are 24 oz or something of that nature. Hope that helps. Let me know how it turns out.

      Reply
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